The Limitless Leader Within
Would you like to look back on 2023 and know that this was the year that changed everything?
I work with black female leaders, who are feeling overwhelmed, undervalued, and afraid to let go of always being seen as the strong one. It's time to release the responsibility of always being the strong black woman, for everyone except yourself, meanwhile, you are crumbling inside calling out for someone to hold a supportive space for you. Yet there is still this inner voice that loves to inform you, of how selfish it sound’s to put yourself first. Here’s what I know to be true, it is not selfish to put your own needs first, the energy and frequency that you create when you are centred and aligned with who you really are touches everyone around in the most positive of ways. Reclaiming your power, your self-worth, and your desires are no longer negotiable.
It’s so easy to create a life that someone else has carved out for you, without even recognising what has happened, but there comes a time when your intuitive voice starts to shout louder, and keeps reminding you of who you are meant to be. How do I know this because that was my story for so many years?
Is this you:
You give so much of yourself to everyone else, that you've lost your own voice and sense of purpose
You're no longer willing to suffer or tolerate experiencing the daily feelings of fear, self-doubt, and overwhelm
You know that you deserve better, you're ready to remove the mask and reconnect with your truth and authenticity.
I constantly told myself that I was not as deserving as other people, I was not worthy of truly asking for what I really wanted, and even if I did nothing would change because deep down I felt powerless to change my own story. If I was meant to be the strong black woman, I had to put everyone else first right? That’s what I thought from a very young age. When I made a decision to dig deep within myself and start connecting back with my own desires of :
Being intentional about improving my relationship with my husband
Showing up and being a better mother to my children
Leading a successful coaching business
Creating melanin-rich retreats across the world
Sourcing indigenous essential oils. and traveling solo to a range of countries across Africa